The Way We Divorce isn’t Working.
- RESCET™
- Oct 31
- 2 min read
Divorce and relational breakdown are among the most destabilizing experiences a person can face.
Divorce is often experienced as a life crisis. There is a well-documented spike in psychological distress (depression, anxiety, general emotional strain) immediately following divorce often lasting 2–3 years. For some, long-term negative effects on mental health persist long after divorce, the premarital mental health baseline never fully recovered, especially for those who experience continued protracted legal battles and ongoing conflict.
In the short term, health-compromising behaviors such as increased substance use, changes in diet, and disrupted sleep increase in the immediate post-divorce period. Generally, divorced or long-term separated individuals tend to incur higher healthcare expenditures up to 27 % higher and use medical services more frequently relative to married individuals. Over the long run, divorced individuals have an elevated risk of chronic diseases including cardiovascular, metabolic and immune dysregulation, and higher all-cause mortality compared to married individuals; divorce is a risk factor for multiple morbidities.
Children of divorce face measurable disadvantages across emotional, academic, and relational domains. Studies link parental separation to elevated rates of anxiety, depression, behavioral problems, and academic underachievement. Early parental divorce predicts lasting economic and interpersonal challenges, including lower lifetime earnings and higher rates of relationship instability.
Outcomes after divorce vary widely. Many adults and children adapt, recover, and go on to lead healthy, meaningful lives, especially when conflict is managed well and co-parenting remains cooperative. Protective factors such as strong social networks, emotional resilience, and stable post-divorce environments play a significant role in adjustment. Those who navigate lower-conflict separations or possess effective conflict-resolution skills tend to experience more favorable long-term trajectories.
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